As individuals concerned with quality of life and terrain, I'm sure you're constantly considering how terrain affects your well-being. Asking about what is spewed into the air, what is breathed, what is released into the water, what is drunk, or absorbed into the food that is eaten has become commonplace. What about your social terrain? It has an equally important impact on your life, and goods are in most cases easier to feel than goods that we think of as external terrain.
The people you interact with on a daily basis—musketeers, co-workers, significant others, and family members—all play prominent roles in your life. While it's intractable to choose who all your companions are (if you really like your own business), and you certainly can't choose your family members (as much as we sometimes wish), you can choose your Musketeers and significant others (because they usually start first as musketeers). Look at the people you think of as musketeers. Do you really feel like you've created a community of demonstrably fulfilling connections? Or your musketeer list behaves like a patchwork because the connections just evolved and weren't nurtured or created on purpose.
I hear you allow, "I like my musketeers. Why would I want to seek out musketeers on purpose anyway? However, in no way happy or satisfied, constantly complaining, If you go with people who are constantly beggars . How might their situation affect your life? If you are a true friend, you will at least feel sad for your friend and feel sad about it. In other situations, you may actually find their feelings, beliefs, and behaviors reflected in your life. Tim can illustrate it nicely.
Tim has had the same group of three musketeers since high school. They are all twenty-five times their age, but Tim is currently the only one of them who is employed. He often hears his musketeers complain about the lack of opportunity due to the state of austerity, how life is illegal because you can't get ahead without a councilor's education, but that with one the job application is still filled and how they can find decent dates now. Tim considered returning to the board, but changed his mind just before the start of the new semester. His girlfriend was so worried that she broke up with him, telling him that if he continued to hang out with his "raunchy" Musketeers, he would never move on. Tim now has a chance to become the director of his store. Do you want his musketeers to find some way to spin it negatively for him? Tim is easily swayed by the attitudes and beliefs of his Musketeers. In fact, they are the embodiment of negativity and have negatively affected his life.
yet his script might actually have looked more like this if Tim had put careful study and care into choosing his Musketeers. Tim and his girlfriend meet up with his musketeers after work. He tells them that he is considered a creation, but that he has a problem because he also goes to the academy. They communicate a bit, realize that this is a fantastic opportunity for him, and come up with a great plan. They suggest that Tim communicates with the academy to see if his work experience could be used to gain board credit and also meet with his Aboriginal headmaster to see if he would be willing to tutor Tim as a pupil. What difference! The type of people Tim considers Musketeers have dramatically changed the course of his life with a single trade. Imagine the impact this can have many times over!
So how do you create a community of fulfilling connections? Start by looking for people who share the same effects with you, or keep those measures that you would like to cultivate in yourself. People who have similar interests, interests, cultures, demands or personalities are a great place to start. Once you start meeting people, gauge how they react to their environment. However, or you will find their reaction positive - I dare say you could have a winner if you respond in kind. But you'll find yourself surrounded by like-minded people who When you do this many times, you'll feel truly connected.
There is nothing wrong with trying to maximize the number of positive relationships that can be made each day. However, this can only bring good effects if you and your musketeers can educate each other and improve the quality of life of others. How many times during nonage and nonage have you heard that you should "choose your musketeers wisely"? Imagine that! After all, the adults ACTUALLY knew what they were talking about!